Throuples – The Tantric Collective Guide

In recent years, polyamory has become a more widely accepted and recognised form of relationship. One subcategory of polyamory is “throuples,” a relationship between three people who are all romantically and sexually involved with one another.

In the UK, you have recently seen news articles about celebrities such as David Haye and speculation about his throuple relationships with Una Healy and Sian Osbourne. Selena Gomez, Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz also recently hit the news joking about their three-way relationship. Some of this may be speculation, and some may be true, but throuples are hot news.

With that in mind, we have created the Tantric Collective Guide to Throuples and how trying a Four Hands or couples massage could be the perfect introduction to the polyamorous lifestyle.

What is a Throuple?

Throuples can take many forms, with each person having unique desires, boundaries, and levels of emotional connection. Some throuples may be more hierarchical, with one person as the “primary” partner, while others may be more equal and fluid.

Making it Work – What are the Challenges and Benefits?

Regardless of their specific structure, throuples offer unique challenges and benefits. On the one hand, having multiple partners can provide more resounding emotional support and intimacy. This allows for a broader range of sexual experiences. On the other hand, navigating the complexities of three individual personalities, desires, and boundaries can be difficult. Jealousy and insecurity can become more prevalent in a throuple relationship.

Open communication and clear boundaries are crucial to the success of a throuple relationship. It is essential for all three partners to regularly check in with one another and openly discuss their feelings and concerns. Additionally, each partner must have a strong sense of self. Make sure to prioritise your own needs and desires as well as those of the group.

It is also vital for throuples to be mindful of the cultural and social attitudes towards their relationship. While polyamory and throuples are becoming more accepted, they are still not widely understood or accepted by many. It is up to each throuple to decide how open they want to be about their relationship. Find ways to navigate the stigma and misunderstandings that may arise.

How Tantric Massage can help Potential Throuples

So you’ve been discussing bringing a third person into your relationship, but you aren’t sure if you’re ready to jump straight into bed together. This is where the services of a tantric massage professional can help.

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Four Hands Massage in London

Most men confidently state that having two women is their ultimate fantasy, but the reality is often a little more challenging. By experiencing a Four Hands Massage, you can experience nakedness and intimate massage with two stunning professional masseuses. This can be a better option than trying something similar with friends or partners, as the environment is discreet and non-judgemental.

During a four-hand massage, you will remain passive as the masseuses work wonders on your body. This means that there is no expectation and no pressure to perform. Give yourself time to build confidence in this ‘safe place’ before trying out polyamory or a throuple at home.

Couples Massage in London

If you are already in a committed relationship and want to experiment, then a sensual couples massage is the perfect place to start. Your masseuse will simultaneously massage both of you so that the three of you can share in the pleasure and love of each other’s bodies and passions. If you have questions, your masseuse will be delighted to demonstrate her techniques so you can try them out at home.

Depending upon your situation, either one of these therapies could be a brilliant first step towards polygamy. Some of you will love the experience, and some will find that it doesn’t suit the dynamic of your relationship. By using a massage agency such as Tantric Collective, you have taken those first steps in a professional, discreet and non-judgemental environment. This is crucial when considering an open relationship. Tread lightly and cherish your love for each other while opening the door to the possibility of more.


In conclusion, throuples offer a unique and fulfilling form of relationship, but they also require much effort and communication to make them work. For those interested in exploring this type of relationship, it is essential to approach it with a strong sense of self, open communication, and clear boundaries. With these elements in place, a throuple can be a profoundly fulfilling and loving relationship.